Introduction
Having an abundance of women to choose from makes all the difference. When you have a lot of spinning plates and many women are interested in you, it opens up access to higher quality women.
The amount of bullshit women pull in online dating is laughable. I’m currently single and spinning many plates. Every day at least one woman pulls some nonsense that makes me laugh out loud. Because I have a lot of options, I can ghost these women quickly and completely forget about them. I’m spinning so many plates that one plate means nothing. This is the position that every man should be in. She wants to talk on the phone before meeting for coffee? NEXT. She won’t send me full body pictures? GHOSTED. She tries to choose where our first date is instead of going to the place I chose? NEXT. She flakes out on the first or second date? GHOSTED. She has a bad attitude or unappealing personality? NEXT. She makes me wait for sex? GHOSTED. She acts bitchy in any way, shape, or form? NEXT. She doesn’t respond to my text messages promptly? GHOSTED. You get the picture…
Having an Abundance of Women
Have you ever noticed that the attractive women you meet through online dating are arrogant? They act superior and aloof only because they have a large amount of men pursuing them and giving them sexual attention. Most of these women are not actually confident and their arrogance is quite transparent. They just have an inflated sense of value from the swiping apps like Tinder, Bumble, and Hinge. Attractive women are inundated with likes and messages from men on these apps, which makes them feel highly desirable. In addition to that, she has her social media profiles with men sliding into her DMs every day. This gives her the perception of having many options with men, and the more options she she has, the less important each individual man becomes.
As a man, you need to create a life that puts you in the same situation as these women. Now, this is where the men are separated from the boys. It seems that many men want a quick fix to their dating problems or they want to put in only enough work to “get the girl”. However, just like everything else in life, there is no quick fix. Men have a burden of performance that is inescapable. Yes, the burden can be cheated, but only temporarily. If the man wants to have many short term interactions with women, he can get away with lying and faking many things. But if he wants women to stay around longer, he needs to actually have an authentically high value life.
The Importance of Physical Appearance
What makes a man attractive to women? It’s obvious isn’t it? Physical appearance, wealth, education, intelligence, social status, humor, confidence and game (in no particular order). I call these Attractive Traits. Women are not mysterious or difficult to understand. We just live in a society that is dominated by the Feminine Imperative, and this Imperative goes to great lengths to obfuscate the truth. All a man needs to do is just open his eyes, but unfortunately this is difficult or impossible for many men. So many men spend their entire lives attempting to remove their burden of performance. If they just accepted the truth of what women actually want, and they committed to improving themselves, they would stop wasting so much time. However, the lazy and delusional men are a blessing to the men that actually work hard on themselves, because everything is competitive and the cream of the crop rises to the top. Women don’t care about the struggles of men, they just wait at the finish line and fuck the winners.
Physical appearance is extremely important to women. A good looking man will get laid once in a while even if he lacks any other Attractive Trait. As they say, “Even a blind squirrel finds a nut sometimes”. Of all the Attractive Traits, men have the most control over their physical appearance, but 42.4% of men are obese in this country. (Link). This is because food, and especially modern processed food, is one of the most addictive drugs on the planet. Men that are overweight simply lack willpower. They know what makes them fat and they know, or should know, how to eat healthy. All of the information and knowledge they need to get in shape is free to access on the internet. But they are so hopelessly addicted to the garbage food that they never change.
Men also delude themselves into thinking that women don’t care about looks. They point to rich celebrities like Adam Sandler that are fat and unattractive, and his beautiful wife, as evidence that women don’t care about looks. This is a good example of what I like to call “Liars Committing Suicide”. Adam Sandler has such an abundance of the other Attractive Traits that his looks don’t matter, but his situation applies to virtually no other man on the planet. In addition, women confuse the issue by saying that looks are not important to them, and they care more about a guy’s “personality” when choosing a mate. But, like most of the things women say, this does not match up with their behavior. I remind you of the Law of Verbal Unreliability, which states that what women say about men is always inaccurate.
Make a Commitment to Having a Lean, Muscular Body
After I studied game and went to law school, I never struggled much to get laid. However, five years ago I made a commitment to making my body lean and muscular and I noticed a big increase in my options with women. I noticed that I could attract better looking women more consistently and that I could have sex with women faster than before. This makes perfect sense. Women that are physically attracted to a man have more genuine, physical, lizard-brain desire for him, and so they will fuck him much faster. Women often like to pretend they are these mysterious, evolved creatures that are above the primal desire to fuck, but they are not. I also noticed I met many more women that wanted me just for sex, and I increased the amount of one-night stands I had exponentially.
In the game of having as many options with women as possible, the first step is a man making his body lean and muscular. There is no way around this. This step cannot be cheated, faked, or lied about. It is the most reliable and trustworthy method a woman has of judging a man’s fitness and value. Every other Attractive Trait can be faked, cheated, manipulated, or lied about. Men can attempt to hide their obesity in their online dating profile, but inevitably the woman will know the truth when she gets face-to-face with him.