The Equality Deception Principle
Women say they want equality with men, but their behavior shows otherwise. The word “equality” sounds nice and reasonable, and it is a concept that is palatable to men. However, the word is nothing but a clever ruse to hide the true intention of women and/or the true result of the feminist crusade for “equality”. Whether women intend to dominate men is not entirely relevant, because domination over men has been the result. Men increasingly find themselves in positions of inferiority to women. Whether women desired or intended for this to happen is irrelevant.
Women Have Always Wanted To Gain the Advantages of Men Without Any of the Costs of Manhood
Women have obtained the careers, income, status, titles, power, independence, and strength of men without any of the burdens that are part and parcel to these male advantages. Not only do women refuse to accept the downsides of being a man, they are incapable of understanding them. If you attempt to talk to a woman about the burdens of being a man, she cannot understand or even acknowledge them. For example, men typically have all of the burden of pursuit, rejection, performance, and financial expenditure in the dating marketplace, but that doesn’t stop women from perpetually claiming that men have it “so easy”. Attractive women also typically complain that dating is “so hard”, but they virtually do no work when compared to men. Most women just sit back and judge the men that attempt to date them.
The phenomenon of entitlement is fascinating. What women believe they are entitled to sets the bar of what is normal and expected in their minds. Thus, since women believe that men pursuing them is just “the way it should be”, women are incapable of recognizing how unfair modern dating is to men. This Entitlement Phenomenon is the reason why discussing red-pill truths with women is an absolute waste of time that will prevent you from getting laid. All women know, or want to know, is an entitled reality where they have massive advantages over men. They don’t think about or consider a reality that is more equal, despite the fact that they claim to desire equality with men. They may pretend to be interested and open to red-pill truths, but they will inevitably judge a man and disqualify him for holding red-pill beliefs, because they will not support anything that threatens their advantages over men.
Women either don’t care about the burdens of men, or their solipsistic nature prevents them from putting themselves in the shoes of men. We are indoctrinated to believe that women are the empathetic gender, but in reality they are horrible at empathizing with men. A dichotomy that I find alarming is that most men will bend over backwards and sacrifice their own interests to empathize with and protect women, but women will rarely do the same for men. I call this the Dichotomy of Empathy Principle.
Women Want to Retain Their Female Advantages While Discarding the Traditional Costs of Being a Woman
The problem lies in women’s attempt to sidestep a fundamental law of reality: Advantages always come with commensurate disadvantages. When we choose to take a path in life that benefits us, we are always surrendering the benefits of alternative paths. When a man chooses to develop his muscles, he will gain size and strength while surrendering mobility and agility. Every path has its advantages and disadvantages. This reality can be seen everywhere: Day and night, yin and yang, good and evil. Everything in life works this way.
Compromise is inherent in equality, because for everyone to be at the same level, people with advantages must be willing to surrender those advantages. However, the innate desire of humans to obtain and hold advantages is the reason why equality never truly exists in reality. Equality is purely theoretical, and it sounds amazing and achievable in theory. However, in practice, perfect equality does not and cannot exist. This is especially true with equality between the genders.
At the time of the Sexual Revolution, men and women made a deal. Men agreed to give women the traditional advantages of men in exchange for women surrendering the traditional advantages of women. Men followed through on their end of the bargain and women did not. This horrid breach of contract by women is plain for everyone to see, yet virtually no one can see it. Women have gained the advantages of men, but they have refused to surrender their female advantages. The result is that women now have more advantages than men, which is contrary to their stated goal of equality. Thus, women really want domination over men, not equality.
It is debatable whether women are conscious of their true desire for domination over men. Some women seem to truly want equality, but they are unwilling to surrender their female advantages, which makes their theoretical desire for equality tantamount to a desire for domination in reality. On the other hand, it is clear that some women want nothing but domination over men, and they are not shy to express that desire.
The Traditional Advantages and Costs of Being a Woman
If we go back before the Civil War in America to what I will call “traditional” times, we look at a time when women were not technically citizens. They didn’t have the right to vote or the right to own property. They could have small jobs, but they could not have lucrative careers. Most their work was confined to domestic duties. This was a time when it was not only legal for a husband to physically punish his wife and children, he was actually encouraged and expected to do so. There were no marital rape laws, which meant that if a husband wanted sex, he always got it. These were the traditional costs of being a woman.
Along with these costs came certain advantages to being a woman. However, the advantages existed only because the costs existed. They were intertwined and linked together. For example, because women could not have lucrative careers or own property, they had no wealth. Thus, men had to pay for everything in dating and marriage with women. In modern times, women have an equal or greater earning power when compared to men. They also can also vote, acquire property, and build wealth. Women are no longer financially poor, so men should no longer have to pay for anything. However, society and women still expect men to pay for everything in dating and marriage. This is just one example where women have unfairly retained the traditional advantages of being a woman while shedding the costs. A woman’s insistence and expectation that men pay for things in dating is completely contrary to their stated desire for “equality” with men, yet no one seems to see the hypocrisy of it all. This type of ignorance and delusion, where something so obvious is hidden from view and remains unchallenged, is the result of massive unchecked female manipulation and the refusal of most men to rail against women’s unfair expectations.
Are Women Really the Sympathetic Gender?
Since women traditionally had less power over their own lives, and their lives were often decided by their fathers and husbands, women had the advantage of being perceived as the weaker, vulnerable, and sympathetic gender. Traditionally, this advantage came with the very real cost of a certain level of powerlessness. Modern women have completely shed all of these costs, and they now enjoy total power and control over their lives. Just ask any one of them and they will proudly tell you that they don’t need a man for anything. However, women still like to frame themselves as the weaker, oppressed gender when it serves them.
Modern women like to point to past oppression as a justification for their staunch feminism and uncompromising attitudes. However, what they always neglect to include in their arguments are the advantages they received from being an “oppressed” class. Being perceived as powerless is a massive advantage, and it is one of the main manipulation tactics women like to use.
People Perceive Women as Being Sympathetic, Empathetic, Altruistic, and Incapable of Treachery
The false perception of women being weak, sympathetic, docile, harmless, innocent, and altruistic is at the root of many inequities that men face today. It’s responsible for our misandrist Family Court system and it’s the reason why so many men get taken advantage of and blindsided by women in relationships and divorce. The idea that women are sympathetic is perhaps the greatest lie told to men out all the lies. The result is that men are weakened by this false perception of female altruism and innocence.
This is the same as a predator feigning injury to draw her prey in. The prey drops his guard while approaching, and he may feel sympathy for the predator. But as soon as the prey comes within striking distance, he learns the hard way that she was faking it all along, and he is devoured by her. When we feel sympathy for someone and believe they are powerless, we drop our guards and we lose our wits, making us much easier to manipulate and control.
In legal trials, lawyers always groom their clients to appear as “sympathetic witnesses” because a jury is made up of human beings, and human beings are easily manipulated. Good defense attorneys know that if they can turn their child-killing mother of a client into a sympathetic witness, the jury will ignore certain facts in order to exonerate her. Perception is reality, and if a woman convinces others that she is harmless, it gives her far more latitude and room to commit treachery.
The worst types of people in life will often feign powerlessness, because if they are successful, it allows them to control the minds of their victims. Appearing innocent and docile is perhaps the greatest and most effective tool in a monster’s arsenal of weapons.
Men are Often the Psychologically Weaker Sex
My readers may not like this, but I have to be honest. My experience has shown me that, in general, women are the psychologically stronger sex when it comes to handling the trauma of romantic and familial breakups. The War Brides Principle partially explains why women have this advantage. I’ll go even further to say that, in general, modern women are mentally stronger than men. This is not true in all cases of course, and men can become mentally stronger than women. But when I survey the landscape of the thousands of men and women I have known in my life, it is clear that women are generally psychologically stronger than men. They very fact that men commit suicide at five times the rate of women is clear evidence of this. Suicide is an act of weakness and capitulation, not strength.
Men are clearly the physically stronger gender, but in our safe police-state society, men cannot use their physicality to dominate women. A man’s advantage over women due to his increased size is intentionally nullified in modern society. The Feminine Imperative has gone to great lengths to allow women the ability to walk around arrogantly and half-naked in skin-tight gym clothes without any fear of being assaulted by men. These same women turn their noses up at men and pontificate that they “don’t need a man for anything”, and our society ensures that she is safe from men that take issue with her behavior. With the effect of gender dimorphism essentially nullified, modern men and women wage psychological warfare on each other. Unfortunately, women usually have the upper hand in this battle.
The fact that women are psychologically stronger than men is what makes their feigned weakness even more insidious and manipulative. Ironically, most men that buy into the lie of equalism actually believe that women are the weaker gender and they deserve the support and protection of men. But if women are equal, how can they also be weaker and deserving of men’s sympathy? This is the type of incongruence and hypocrisy that Beta White Knights are unable to see. Women have convinced these men to hand over all the advantages of equality while cunningly retaining the advantages and optics of weakness. The Beta White Knight is caught in a complex trap of manipulations and lies. He is simply a tool for women, but he fancies himself to be a “real man”.